TJ, I saw a few comments you posted, and take it from me, I lost my father suddenly and unexpectedly. With my father, it was thirty-six hours from his surgery to when he was pronounced. There is one thing I can tell you with certainty. No one can take him away from you. In fact, the best of him has become part of you. You may not see it in this now, but when the shock passes, and you have a chance to quiet the anguish, you will find it inside of you. It is okay to take time; it took me quite a bit of time to get over my father’s death, and he and I were quite a bit older than you and your father. And finally, the reason I can tell you this with confidence; with the kind of man your father is, we are both better men because of our fathers.
A year ago, after your first spring game, you sat in the Burger King at the LaFortune Student Center. My family sat across from you. You sat there in what I assume was you father's varsity jacket. I hope things come together for you, and that you are the second All-American to wear that jacket. At that time, I could tell that you had the kind of character that would make your parents proud. So it was evident to me. I wish you the best life has to offer, and I will pray for you and your family. Beir bua agus beannacht, BT.