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The number of minors being prescribed hormonal treatment is skyrocketing. I think it is entirely warranted to sound alarms about it. And when you are talking about permanent life changing effects of these drugs on children, I don't think there is any overreacting
 

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Do you know how many children have gone through gender affirming procedures? The actual number will shock you at how infrequent this actually happens, and if you were take a step back out of your own echo chamber you would see the results for what they are. Very minimal and not happening at any statistically significant rate.

If you are of the mindset that "1 is too many" then you need to be ok with accepting that some will take the message of "LGBT radicalization that targets children" as a massive issue and push hateful rhetoric that you, personally may not agree with, to those that are just trying to get by and didn't choose to be caught up in this culture war.

It's fine to be concerned with whatever issue you find personally important, but something that happens at trivial rates. The amount of kids on puberty blockers is at the same rate as malaria cases in the US per year. Is this worth alienating an entire group of people, that is a choice that needs to be made by those that want to take up this charge.

I had an entire response to this and fat fingered the back button and lost it. My bad.

In short, I have LGBT family and friends and never once alienated them or treated them differently. I am, in fact, stepping out of my own echo chamber by asking Colorado for his opinions.

Yes, I am of the mindset that "1 is too many." They're fucking minors and I've watched it happen first hand. It destroyed my friend's family. A very left wing family who received no support from doctors, therapists, or the school admin after their daughter went to a handful of therapy sessions and it was determined that she must be struggling with the fact that "she's probably just a boy and needs pharmaceutical therapy." They were horrified at the idea of not appearing loving and supportive while simultaneously being extremely hesitant to consent to these drugs. The daughter, btw, out grew her gender dysphoria. Realized she was internalizing the trauma induced by her parents heated divorce, and lives a perfectly healthy happy life as a young woman now.

The numbers may be low, but they're growing, and that's why it's important. The ASPS literally just yesterday came out against surgery for minors. Why on earth would they take such a public stance if it were in fact not happening?
 
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Classic. If it's information that calls your stance into question, it must be labeled "misinformation."
No it's not. It's what the medical community full of experts that know more than both of say as well as what the numbers actually say
 
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Classic. If it's information that calls your stance into question, it must be labeled "misinformation."
And to go one step further I have a vested interest in it. And I didn't want to bring it up because others will use it against me because I am trans. I've struggled with it for my whole life and didn't take any medical steroids towards transitioning until in my 30s. I was depressed, suicidal, and attempted to kill myself multiple times throughout my teenage years and young 20s. Thank God we didn't have guns in the house because if we did I definitely wouldn't be here having this conversation. If I had access to proper healthcare I would've been able to work out all of those much sooner than I did.
 

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We've talked about how compromised these "medical experts" are. "Medical Experts" have claimed that being on time is a harmful vestige of white supremacy. "Medical Experts" wanting to pump children full of drugs without knowing what their true impact is and hiding studies that show that it sterilizes kids are not worthy of anybody's respect. Relying on experts and sacrificing your own ability to critically think about issues is an intellectually cowardly way to go about life.
 
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I had an entire response to this and fat fingered the back button and lost it. My bad.

In short, I have LGBT family and friends and never once alienated them or treated them differently. I am, in fact, stepping out of my own echo chamber by asking Colorado for his opinions.

Yes, I am of the mindset that "1 is too many." They're fucking minors and I've watched it happen first hand. It destroyed my friend's family. A very left wing family who received no support from doctors, therapists, or the school admin after their daughter went to a handful of therapy sessions and it was determined that she must be struggling with the fact that "she's probably just a boy and needs pharmaceutical therapy." They were horrified at the idea of not appearing loving and supportive while simultaneously being extremely hesitant to consent to these drugs. The daughter, btw, out grew her gender dysphoria. Realized she was internalizing the trauma induced by her parents heated divorce, and lives a perfectly healthy happy life as a young woman now.

The numbers may be low, but they're growing, and that's why it's important. The ASPS literally just yesterday came out against surgery for minors. Why on earth would they take such a public stance if it were in fact not happening?
Thank you for wanting to have a real conversation about it. And that's personal story is exactly why healthcare options being available is so important. Kids are just being out on hormones right away and why therapy is required. And even after therapy still needs approval by parents. And again surgery rates for minors are extremely low, and I agree that they really shouldn't be provided for minors besides extreme one off situations. And those are all primarily for female to male trans kids and only mastectomies.
 
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We've talked about how compromised these "medical experts" are. "Medical Experts" have claimed that being on time is a harmful vestige of white supremacy. "Medical Experts" wanting to pump children full of drugs without knowing what their true impact is and hiding studies that show that it sterilizes kids are not worthy of anybody's respect. Relying on experts and sacrificing your own ability to critically think about issues is an intellectually cowardly way to go about life.
Dude trans people don't only listen to to the doctors, it's something they have been thinking critically about for longer than you could possibly know. You act like they can just Willy nilly sign up for a surgery and get it done asap when that's not the case at all
 

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Thank you for wanting to have a real conversation about it. And that's personal story is exactly why healthcare options being available is so important. Kids are just being out on hormones right away and why therapy is required. And even after therapy still needs approval by parents. And again surgery rates for minors are extremely low, and I agree that they really shouldn't be provided for minors besides extreme one off situations. And those are all primarily for female to male trans kids and only mastectomies.
And Tim Walz wants to remove custody of children from parents who do not consent or approve of these treatments.
 
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And Tim Walz wants to remove custody of children from parents who do not consent or approve of these treatments.
And I don't agree with that, my stance has been consistent in that having healthcare options for transgender healthcare is important and not removing them all together for people both youth and adults.
 

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Gays are all pedos rhetoric has been and continues to be a mainstay in right wing circles.
I'd say that's older rhetoric. The stigma lately has been more towards trans women than anything.
 
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Again I don't agree with that, but again operations for minors aren't really happening at the level claimed. And only for extreme situations and for teenagers. Again I don't agree with the state getting involved in custody issues, but how would that be different than what happens if a parent denies a child a procedure for cancer based upon religious beliefs? To reiterate again I don't agree with the state taking away children unless the child being with the parents is a detriment health wise. I'm strictly playing devil's advocate and trying to have a conversation

Here's the study that goes over the numbers for anyone interested

 
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And to go one step further I have a vested interest in it. And I didn't want to bring it up because others will use it against me because I am trans. I've struggled with it for my whole life and didn't take any medical steroids towards transitioning until in my 30s. I was depressed, suicidal, and attempted to kill myself multiple times throughout my teenage years and young 20s. Thank God we didn't have guns in the house because if we did I definitely wouldn't be here having this conversation. If I had access to proper healthcare I would've been able to work out all of those much sooner than I did.
You're fairly new to the board, but for clarification, we've had this discussion numerous times. No one on this board is against trans changes if acted upon properly. Bottom line is if the child is under 18, they should be cared for psychologically (no drugs or surgery) until they reach the age of consent. At that time let them make their own decision. Until then they are not mentally or physically ready. I don't care for rationalizing it because it's a very small number. One is one too many if they aren't the age of consent. We've already seen a few examples where the parent allowed the child to change and later the child regrets it.

Sorry to hear you had your struggles, but happy you've worked through it.
 

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No it's not. It's what the medical community full of experts that know more than both of say as well as what the numbers actually say

JAMA, AAP, ASPS all have papers reporting numbers. Numbers are low. Numbers are increasing. I work in the medical field. I spend way more time than I'd care to admit on sites reading papers, studies, and journals. They aren't all gospel, but the more you read, the more you see trends in the abstract. You also have to consider the funding and whether or not it's having any impact on the studies are being conducted and written. As well as whether or not they support an agenda, in which case could potentially lead to a decision to suppress oppositional studies and broadcast on MSM supportive studies.

And to go one step further I have a vested interest in it. And I didn't want to bring it up because others will use it against me because I am trans. I've struggled with it for my whole life and didn't take any medical steroids towards transitioning until in my 30s. I was depressed, suicidal, and attempted to kill myself multiple times throughout my teenage years and young 20s. Thank God we didn't have guns in the house because if we did I definitely wouldn't be here having this conversation. If I had access to proper healthcare I would've been able to work out all of those much sooner than I did.

I appreciate you having the courage to say that and I'm thankful that you're still here living life. Hopefully a happier version than you mention in your past. The main takeaway for me, is that you didn't take anything until your 30s. That's important to note, as the topic we're discussing is minors. I fully support you and your decisions as a consenting adult. We'll have issues if you/when you decide that a minor struggling with trauma should be put on the same medication.*

*I'll note that I'm not naive that transgenderism is real. I'm not suggesting that every single person struggling with gender identity is just experiencing gender dysphoria. But, as you and others have mentioned, the real number of actual people who are transgendered is extremely low. So when numbers in minors spike, we should stop and ask what's going on? It requires further evaluation. And upon further evaluation, other countries are already coming to the realization that proceeding with extreme caution in minors is the way to go. The ASPS is the first major medical association to break from American consensus. The EU among others are already ahead of us in that regard.


And I don't agree with that, my stance has been consistent in that having healthcare options for transgender healthcare is important and not removing them all together for people both youth and adults.

Transgender healthcare is important if by that term you mean, therapy and not pharmaceuticals intended to transition a minor. Some studies support that gender dysphoria is extremely common, yet that the minor dealing in such confusion is often less likely to be dealing with an actual gender indentity crisis and instead suffering from other real life trauma. Masquerading as trans feeds an ego with sympathy. (Not aiming this at your life, I'm simply saying some studies are now finding that in minors, their depression/anxiety/etc is far more likely to be linked to an underlining, unresolved issue, completely unrelated to gender. And once adequately addressed, the gender identity crisis completely goes away. This bore out to be the case in my friend's family as well. It's not anecdotal, as the studies are supporting this exact trend that her family experienced.)
 
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You're fairly new to the board, but for clarification, we've had this discussion numerous times. No one on this board is against trans changes if acted upon properly. Bottom line is if the child is under 18, they should be cared for psychologically (no drugs or surgery) until they reach the age of consent. At that time let them make their own decision. Until then they are not mentally or physically ready. I don't care for rationalizing it because it's a very small number. One is one too many if they aren't the age of consent. We've already seen a few examples where the parent allowed the child to change and later the child regrets it.

Sorry to hear you had your struggles, but happy you've worked through it.
I've been on the board since 2006 and have had previous handles before this one. Just was never active in conversations. I've seen the previous conversations, and felt like I could add a different perspective that may have been missing. Regret rate among transgender individuals and any procedure is astronomically low. Not saying it doesn't happen. Just that it's not common.
 

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I've been on the board since 2006 and have had previous handles before this one. Just was never active in conversations. I've seen the previous conversations, and felt like I could add a different perspective that may have been missing. Regret rate among transgender individuals and any procedure is astronomically low. Not saying it doesn't happen. Just that it's not common.

....as adults.

Adults who made a decision to transition. Big difference.
 

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I had an entire response to this and fat fingered the back button and lost it. My bad.

In short, I have LGBT family and friends and never once alienated them or treated them differently. I am, in fact, stepping out of my own echo chamber by asking Colorado for his opinions.

Yes, I am of the mindset that "1 is too many." They're fucking minors and I've watched it happen first hand. It destroyed my friend's family. A very left wing family who received no support from doctors, therapists, or the school admin after their daughter went to a handful of therapy sessions and it was determined that she must be struggling with the fact that "she's probably just a boy and needs pharmaceutical therapy." They were horrified at the idea of not appearing loving and supportive while simultaneously being extremely hesitant to consent to these drugs. The daughter, btw, out grew her gender dysphoria. Realized she was internalizing the trauma induced by her parents heated divorce, and lives a perfectly healthy happy life as a young woman now.

The numbers may be low, but they're growing, and that's why it's important. The ASPS literally just yesterday came out against surgery for minors. Why on earth would they take such a public stance if it were in fact not happening?
Then if 1 is too many you need to account for the transgender people that do want to go forward with treatment and those that do not get that treatment need to be worked into the risk/benefit analysis. Of course, on an anecdotal level there are cases that are brutal for the kids/families that do have these outcomes you describe. But in my opinion, you can't make broad policy based on anecdotes. In looking at the stats I believe that the people who get the treatment they desire outweighs those that go through with the treatment plan and are disappointed with the results. We'll likely disagree at this point because it's all dependent on acceptable risk threshold and most amount of good for the most amount of people.

They are coming out with a stance on this because there is a panic that these surgeries are happening at alarming rates. They aren't. But this is a case of conservatives inventing something to be happening at alarming rates and demand that people address it. Despite what the stats are showing people are devoting huge amounts of time and resources towards this topic, and I honestly don't believe it's genuine. The same voices from years past that bemoaned that gay parent's wouldn't be good for children are the same ones behind "Children genital's must be protected" - you can look back at legacy conservative media and see the exact same people making these arguments. If the largest MSM sources are spending a great deal of time on this to enrage their viewers, why wouldn't the ASPS want to address it.
 
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JAMA, AAP, ASPS all have papers reporting numbers. Numbers are low. Numbers are increasing. I work in the medical field. I spend way more time than I'd care to admit on sites reading papers, studies, and journals. They aren't all gospel, but the more you read, the more you see trends in the abstract. You also have to consider the funding and whether or not it's having any impact on the studies are being conducted and written. As well as whether or not they support an agenda, in which case could potentially lead to a decision to suppress oppositional studies and broadcast on MSM supportive studies.



I appreciate you having the courage to say that and I'm thankful that you're still here living life. Hopefully a happier version than you mention in your past. The main takeaway for me, is that you didn't take anything until your 30s. That's important to note, as the topic we're discussing is minors. I fully support you and your decisions as a consenting adult. We'll have issues if you/when you decide that a minor struggling with trauma should be put on the same medication.*

*I'll note that I'm not naive that transgenderism is real. I'm not suggesting that every single person struggling with gender identity is just experiencing gender dysphoria. But, as you and others have mentioned, the real number of actual people who are transgendered is extremely low. So when numbers in minors spike, we should stop and ask what's going on? It requires further evaluation. And upon further evaluation, other countries are already coming to the realization that proceeding with extreme caution in minors is the way to go. The ASPS is the first major medical association to break from American consensus. The EU among others are already ahead of us in that regard.




Transgender healthcare is important if by that term you mean, therapy and not pharmaceuticals intended to transition a minor. Some studies support that gender dysphoria is extremely common, yet that the minor dealing in such confusion is often less likely to be dealing with an actual gender indentity crisis and instead suffering from other real life trauma. Masquerading as trans feeds an ego with sympathy. (Not aiming this at your life, I'm simply saying some studies are now finding that in minors, their depression/anxiety/etc is far more likely to be linked to an underlining, unresolved issue, completely unrelated to gender. And once adequately addressed, the gender identity crisis completely goes away. This bore out to be the case in my friend's family as well. It's not anecdotal, as the studies are supporting this exact trend that her family experienced.)
Not arguing that, just trying to bring some nuance to the conversation that appears to be missing from the conversation hear. I work in Healthcare as well and have spent an absurd amount of timing researching as well. And i agree therapy is the most important part. I was in therapy for 3 years before I took the step to start medically transitioning. I'm just stating that removing that access is going to have negative effects for people.
 

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....as adults.

Adults who made a decision to transition. Big difference.
Exactly. Studies show for kids that have questions, 4 out of 5 grow out of it by the time they become adults. The number is much lower for adults that decide to transition. That's why it's important that children don't make life altering changes.
 

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Then if 1 is too many you need to account for the transgender people that do want to go forward with treatment and those that do not get that treatment need to be worked into the risk/benefit analysis. Of course, on an anecdotal level there are cases that are brutal for the kids/families that do have these outcomes you describe. But in my opinion, you can't make broad policy based on anecdotes. In looking at the stats I believe that the people who get the treatment they desire outweighs those that go through with the treatment plan and are disappointed with the results. We'll likely disagree at this point because it's all dependent on acceptable risk threshold and most amount of good for the most amount of people.

They are coming out with a stance on this because there is a panic that these surgeries are happening at alarming rates. They aren't. But this is a case of conservatives inventing something to be happening at alarming rates and demand that people address it. Despite what the stats are showing people are devoting huge amounts of time and resources towards this topic, and I honestly don't believe it's genuine. The same voices from years past that bemoaned that gay parent's wouldn't be good for children are the same ones behind "Children genital's must be protected" - you can look back at legacy conservative media and see the exact same people making these arguments. If the largest MSM sources are spending a great deal of time on this to enrage their viewers, why wouldn't the ASPS want to address it.

Responsible broad policy would be proceeding with caution and using physical life altering medication and surgery as a last resort. Not treating every single person who claims to be struggling with an identity crisis as a potential guinea pig and lab rat. Again, we are talking about minors.
 

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Not arguing that, just trying to bring some nuance to the conversation that appears to be missing from the conversation hear. I work in Healthcare as well and have spent an absurd amount of timing researching as well. And i agree therapy is the most important part. I was in therapy for 3 years before I took the step to start medically transitioning. I'm just stating that removing that access is going to have negative effects for people.

What would you say to a family who's 13 year old daughter wanted to transition after 3 sessions of therapy? Because that's what happened to my friend. 3 sessions. Not 3 years. You are an adult. She (was) 13, at the time.
 
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What would you say to a family who's 13 year old daughter wanted to transition after 3 sessions of therapy? Because that's what happened to my friend. 3 sessions. Not 3 years. You are an adult. She (was) 13, at the time.
I would say lets continue therapy, they can experiment with clothes to express their gender identity as well as name. Puberty blockers would open for discussion but not something I would immediately support. Hormones wouldn't be on the table
 

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Responsible broad policy would be proceeding with caution and using physical life altering medication and surgery as a last resort. Not treating every single person who claims to be struggling with an identity crisis as a potential guinea pig and lab rat. Again, we are talking about minors.
Exactly my point. It should be left to the doctor/family/patient to all agree. Nowhere have I or Colorado said that these medical treatments should be carried out willy nilly, actual medical treatments for gender dysphoria is slightly higher than malaria cases in the US ~2K per year.

For children diagnosed with gender dysphoria is around 42K so the rates at which those that carry on with more intensive care is extremally minimal.
Puberty blockers - 3.3%
Hormone therapy - 10%
Top surgery - 0.6%

https://www.reuters.com/investigates/special-report/usa-transyouth-data/

This is a very complicated issue and the messaging on this is insanely inflammatory by some in conservative MSM to frame it as LGBTQ people are trying to push surgery and pills on kids. Does that even pass the smell test? Why would people who've experienced ridicule for most of their life want to subject others to that treatment? Of course, there will always be edge cases of those who are bad actors within any community, but those people will be dealt with by the legal system.

The question is - is it worth it to demonize entire communities in order to "save" a handful of people who do regret the treatment?
 

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I would say lets continue therapy, they can experiment with clothes to express their gender identity as well as name. Puberty blockers would open for discussion but not something I would immediately support. Hormones wouldn't be on the table

Right. The bolded is harmless.

People can support LGBT rights and still be against hormonal therapy in children.

Exactly my point. It should be left to the doctor/family/patient to all agree. Nowhere have I or Colorado said that these medical treatments should be carried out willy nilly, actual medical treatments for gender dysphoria is slightly higher than malaria cases in the US ~2K per year.

For children diagnosed with gender dysphoria is around 42K so the rates at which those that carry on with more intensive care is extremally minimal.
Puberty blockers - 3.3%
Hormone therapy - 10%
Top surgery - 0.6%

https://www.reuters.com/investigates/special-report/usa-transyouth-data/

This is a very complicated issue and the messaging on this is insanely inflammatory by some in conservative MSM to frame it as LGBTQ people are trying to push surgery and pills on kids. Does that even pass the smell test? Why would people who've experienced ridicule for most of their life want to subject others to that treatment? Of course, there will always be edge cases of those who are bad actors within any community, but those people will be dealt with by the legal system.

The question is - is it worth it to demonize entire communities in order to "save" a handful of people who do regret the treatment?

Are you saying that I'm demonizing an entire community by having the opinion that children should not be on puberty blockers, hormones, or have surgery? This is more than just "a handful." Per your own provided stats, hormone therapy is 4200 kids. That's hardly "extremely minimal." 250 kids receiving surgery. Most of which are double mastectomy "top surgeries" that will change their lives forever. And these numbers are increasing. That's why this is being talked about.
 
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Right. The bolded is harmless.

People can support LGBT rights and still be against hormonal therapy in children.



Are you saying that I'm demonizing an entire community by having the opinion that children should not be on puberty blockers, hormones, or have surgery? This is more than just "a handful." Per your own provided stats, hormone therapy is 4200 kids. That's hardly "extremely minimal." 250 kids receiving surgery. Most of which are double mastectomy "top surgeries" that will change their lives forever. And these numbers are increasing. That's why this is being talked about.
I think puberty blockers are important to include. They've been proven safe for generations and prescribed for non trans kids, and helps buy time to make a determination for long term
 
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