All I'm trying to say is if DR goes to UGA/Tech or Virginia for that matter and takes school serious he will be fine if the NFL doesn't work out. You don't NEED to go to ND to be successful in life, as hard as that may be to believe.
Of course not, and I don't think anyone is saying that. Which is (I think) our main point of disagreement here.
Your viewpoint is "you can great education and be successful regardless of what school you got to, so let's not act like it's totally crazy for him to pick (insert less prestigious school)"
My viewpoint is "there are very few schools like Stanford and ND that truly dedicate themselves to graduating players with true educations and meaningful degrees, and it's extremely unlikely that someone in his shoes is going to be the exception and get a 'great' education at a football factory or school like GT that has horrible graduation rates."
So I think someone would be crazy to say that "you NEED to go to (INSERT SCHOOL) to be successful in life"... that obviously doesn't make sense. But I think it's almost as crazy to suggest that there isn't a huge difference for the average person going to a place like Stanford vs "SEC school", and that holds doubly true for student athletes.
Serious question Lax...Say you are running a company, and a job candidate comes in from ND and from Pitt (both with business degrees) and the ND guy is just an @$$hole and the Pitt guy is not. Who would you hire?
I basically reject this question. First of all, I'd never give preferential treatment to an ND person if they were 1) unqualified 2) a bad fit. Second, my firm hires people from a lot of different places and walks of life. We have Stanford, Notre Dame, Cornell... we also hire a lot of Penn State and Kansas State because they have very strong architectural engineering programs. Engineering is a bit of a meritocracy, so I'm going to hire the "Pitt" guy every time if he's got a better GPA/resume/interviews/advanced degrees.
Third, and this is probably the most important, this binary question doesn't really apply to Demetris Robertson or any other prospective athlete. It's not "does aptitude and personality trump the school on your diploma?" The answer is obviously "yes."
The question is "does the same student athlete with the same professional goals have a decided advantage in reaching those goals going to Notre Dame or Alabama?" If those professional goals are lofty, the answer is obviously that they get a bigger leg up at Notre Dame. And with respect to Georgia Tech, they're a truly fantastic engineering school but they effectively don't let student athletes do engineering AND they don't help football players achieve degrees.