Nah, that kind of detail can only come from experience. It's fine I guess as long as your wife is cool with it 😀
ND is the crown jewel of catholic universities in the world. If you have a problem with religious ideas, you probably should find another university/team to root for. There are hundreds of them.
To your edit. I have no problem with “religious” ideas. In fact, my dad who I respect and admire is the most devout Catholic I’ve ever met. What I have a huge problem with is the application and imposition of said ideas as a matter of convenience. Talk the talk? Then walk the walk.
For example, I find it interesting and problematic that a good number of Christians will talk out of one side of their mouth saying things like “radical leftists are at war with Christians” while at the same time extolling the virtues of laissez faire capitalism, which in my estimation has done more to debase Christianity vis a vis sales and marketing.
The holiest day in the Catholic calendar? Seems to me it is more about chocolate bunnies and egg hunts than Christ. Christmas? Mobs in stores seeking the hot ticket item. The holiest day of the week? Sports and brunch. But yeah, Marxism.
All of the above does make sense though because in a true capitalist system there isn’t anything that can’t be commodified and therefore, in my opinion nothing is sacred.
Don’t even get me started on the whole “abortion bad, capital punishment good” paradox.
Anyhow, I think there is a place in this world for serious thinkers that come from a Catholic perspective. I am also a big believer in the idea that we are all interconnected as a “flock”. Maybe not as children of god or Christ or whatever but maybe more in a biological/ecological sense. Like seagulls or something.
Go Irish!