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Michael Floyd recieved an open letter from a random college student...no name was given.


I know it's tough, Michael. Growing up is rough, as we have all found out.

Or rather, are finding out as we grow.

And pressure only makes things worse, as you are well aware. Considering all the pressures I already experience on a weekly basis, to imagine what a college football star must deal with is unfathomable to someone like me; someone who has been following you since your Cretim-Derham highlight tapes were first released to us Irish fans.

Another life lesson learned while growing up is that everyone will make mistakes, no matter how perfect any single person may seem. I've seen it all around me—people choosing the wrong routes and ending up in positions they never could have imagined. Luckily, I have been able to steer clear of that wrong route and hopefully will stay righted.

However, as many of my fellow peers (and yours as well) have done, you made a few mistakes. And when you are in one of the biggest spotlights in the sporting world, a few mistakes can lead to a downfall.

Take fellow (and former) college football star, Terrelle Pryor. Brought up with every expectation in the world that he would become the next big thing at quarterback, Pryor chose a few too many bad paths. He made mistakes that weren't fixable. Because of this, his time in the spotlight ran out and he has moved on in a different way than he had ever pictured.

My outcry in this letter is to grab your attention. The attention of college football's greatest receiving talent.

I'm sure you have heard over and over what you need to do in order to make up for your actions. We get it—you're a college kid that likes to drink beer and party on the weekends. There is no harm in that, especially in today's college atmosphere.

However, when you are in a spotlight as big as yours, every action is to be scrutinized, observed, and criticized heavily. Your mistakes would most likely be considered "stereotypical behavior" in the life of an average college student. But because you are Michael Floyd, you don't have much room to work with when it comes to evils of the media and social worlds.

I'm sure you've heard more lecturing and advice in the past year than ever before—maybe even more than Brian Kelly's football advice.

You have been given the chance of a lifetime, and a final chance. You've been given chances before, but none like this, as this is your final opportunity not only to correct that wronged path, but to make the big leap from a troubled college football star to a matured, professional, and talented receiver destined for an illustrious NFL career.

I have no doubt that you will do everything in your power to make amends not only for yourself, but for the University, for what has gotten you into this mess in the first place. After all, Kelly has given you the ultimatum of your lifetime—change or be gone.

Life lessons have been learned. Now is the time to step up or sit down.

Which will it be?

Sincerely,

Your Biggest Fan
 

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Is this rumor or confirmed fact of some sort? Where did you find this?
 

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Why the heck would Michael tell anyone about this letter? Why? It has to be BS
 

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Yeah my gut was that it's total BS.... and a pretty crappy letter tbqh.

No one but Mike and maybe a few people very close to him know what all he's been through or is going through. This "open letter" uses far too many cliches and broad strokes of advice to convey anything meaningful. If I was in his shoes, I would read this letter, be glad someone cared enough to write it, and then toss it in the trash. There are no profound nuggets of sage wisdom in it... and the author even admits he's never been in his positions before.

Oh well. Good news is that by all accounts Mike is on the right track and should be suiting up for his senior season where he will shatter all Irish receiving records.
 

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Whoever wrote this is a sanctimonious tool and should never write anything ever again.
 

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Don't know where this came from. It's certainly not that bad and pretty well written...although I don't see the point of it all.
 

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And pray tell, what is it about this letter that has you doubting Thomas' so upset. It's a common sense letter, not a masterpiece, for sure, but it certainly will give Michael something to think about....in a good way. I see no harm whatsoever is telling a young man to put his life together and take advantage of an oportunity that is extended that is worthwhile. Criticism of the letter is not warranted...period.
 

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You guys bash this writer for this letter...but he's absolutely right. Cliches or not, what he states in the letter is true.

I don't see anything wrong with it and hopefully Floyd is smart enough to listen to it.

The only "tools" are those that brush this off as nonsense. Floyd will be the tool if he screws up again and blows a fantastic opportunity.
 

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And pray tell, what is it about this letter that has you doubting Thomas' so upset. It's a common sense letter, not a masterpiece, for sure, but it certainly will give Michael something to think about....in a good way. I see no harm whatsoever is telling a young man to put his life together and take advantage of an oportunity that is extended that is worthwhile. Criticism of the letter is not warranted...period.

It isn't common sense. It is grandstanding, condescending rubbish. If you want to write the kid a letter (which I wouldn't advise in the first place), tell him you're behind him, you're rooting for him, etc. It isn't some fan's place to get all preachy and tell the kid his business. It is unbelievably presumptuous for whoever wrote that to think that Michael (or anyone else, since it was an "open letter") needs or wants that kind of "advice," or that those words of "wisdom" are going to lead to some sort of epiphany for the kid. He either gets it or he doesn't, but that letter is going to have any impact on anything, other than maybe helping the author get off on the smell of his own feces.
 

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It isn't common sense. It is grandstanding, condescending rubbish. If you want to write the kid a letter (which I wouldn't advise in the first place), tell him you're behind him, you're rooting for him, etc. It isn't some fan's place to get all preachy and tell the kid his business. It is unbelievably presumptuous for whoever wrote that to think that Michael (or anyone else, since it was an "open letter") needs or wants that kind of "advice," or that those words of "wisdom" are going to lead to some sort of epiphany for the kid. He either gets it or he doesn't, but that letter is going to have any impact on anything, other than maybe helping the author get off on the smell of his own feces.

not sure if i read the letter to be grandstanding, condescending, etc. i thought it made some good and obvious points, just don't think it needed to be written.

kind of a "captain obvious" type letter.
 

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I didn't care for the tone and tenor of the letter. Obviously. I'm not going to comment on it any further. I'm sure the writer had the best intentions, so maybe I shouldn't be so critical.
 

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not sure if i read the letter to be grandstanding, condescending, etc. i thought it made some good and obvious points, just don't think it needed to be written.

kind of a "captain obvious" type letter.

Exactly, which is to me exactly what makes it what Rhode Irish is saying. Maybe I wouldn't go so far as to say "condescending" but writing a letter to someone full of blanket statements and cliches is, at best, an annoying way to show admiration. At worst, it is you talking down to someone because you think he doesn't get it.

Either way, whenever someone puts a statement to the effect of "I've never made mistakes like you, but...." in a letter it can be interpreted as condescending quite easily. Criticism of the letter is, in fact, very warranted. The letter is nothing more than a critique of Mike thinly veiled as "advice"... sent months after the fact as he continues to do everything he was asked to do.
 

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I'm with Rhode on this one. It would be extremely presumptuous and preachy to actually mail such a letter to Floyd.

However, the author (Dan Scofield at BR) picked the "open letter" format to make his article more stylistically interesting. He has no intention of bringing it to Floyd's attention, so I don't really have a problem with it.

It's just another "My Thoughts on Michael Floyd" article filled with empty platitudes. I've gotten more meaningful advice from fortune cookies.
 

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...hard to guess the motivation of the writer. Indeed it could just be an author using a clever method... What is in it will likely have been said to Mike a few...hundred times. But if one more time is the trick...I'm all for it.

And sure, if the letter were from Chris Carter, it may carry a little more weight.

Its kinda funny though...after watching the stupidity in DC over the last decade or so, from the supposed moral, ethical, and intellectual elite...I never take it for granted that anyone will, on their own accord, make the right and obvious decision at any age. People are generally incapable of self moderation, and fame/notariety has the exact opposite affect on folks than you'd think it would. Some figure it out...and Mike has the right support system to deal with his demons...I think ND, coach Kelly, etc. recognize that they have an opportunity to use football to get Mike's head right. I think the challenge that is ahead for Mike is his first few years in the NFL...hope someone mentors the hell out of him...
 

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The point is...somebody should be telling him these things. Rather than kneeling before him, which is what so many people in his life and at the university do now, tell him how it is in the simplest way you can.


As far as calling it a "Captain Obvious" letter...well I guess Mike is just that dumb and doesn't get the obvious as this isn't his first screw up. So maybe this is just what he needs to hear.

Hell, I wish more fans wrote these kinds of letters rather than the typical "we got your back no matter how big of a screw up you are and no matter how many times you throw it in our face" that Rhode Irish thinks is the acceptable attitude. The problem isnt fans getting behind their guys, we do that EVERY SATURDAY. So you're saying we can root for him when he's catching TD's, but it's out of our limits to give him some advice and criticism? Sorry, doesn't work like that.
 

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Hell, I wish more fans wrote these kinds of letters rather than the typical "we got your back no matter how big of a screw up you are and no matter how many times you throw it in our face" that Rhode Irish thinks is the acceptable attitude. The problem isnt fans getting behind their guys, we do that EVERY SATURDAY. So you're saying we can root for him when he's catching TD's, but it's out of our limits to give him some advice and criticism? Sorry, doesn't work like that.

I am not a proponent of fans being sycophants and enabling bad behavior. I said that if fans felt compelled to write a letter to Michael (which I said I think is a bad idea, anyway), it should just be to let him know he has support in his efforts to get his life in order and that people believe in him. That is different from telling him "we got your back no matter how big of a screw-up you are and no matter how many times you throw it in our face." Anything beyond encouragement is entirely inappropriate. He isn't your child, you aren't his coach, teacher or mentor. The kid plays football for the team you root for, which does not make him your property. It is not your place to tell the kid what to do or how to do it.

Yes, I am saying you can root for him when he's catching TD's (and walking across the stage with a diploma in his hands, too), but it is not your place to give him (unsolicited) advice and criticism. It does work like that, as a matter of fact. Being a fan gives you a passive relationship with the team you root for and its players. If the team or its players disappoint you, stop rooting for them.
 

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I am not a proponent of fans being sycophants and enabling bad behavior. I said that if fans felt compelled to write a letter to Michael (which I said I think is a bad idea, anyway), it should just be to let him know he has support in his efforts to get his life in order and that people believe in him. That is different from telling him "we got your back no matter how big of a screw-up you are and no matter how many times you throw it in our face." Anything beyond encouragement is entirely inappropriate. He isn't your child, you aren't his coach, teacher or mentor. The kid plays football for the team you root for, which does not make him your property. It is not your place to tell the kid what to do or how to do it.

Yes, I am saying you can root for him when he's catching TD's (and walking across the stage with a diploma in his hands, too), but it is not your place to give him (unsolicited) advice and criticism. It does work like that, as a matter of fact. Being a fan gives you a passive relationship with the team you root for and its players. If the team or its players disappoint you, stop rooting for them.

Critcism doesn't mean you don't want them to do well. Sounds like someone needs tougher skin. Some of the BEST movtivation comes from criticism. And it doesn't matter where it comes from, even if it's the janitor.

And we can comment all day about screw ups at OSU, UM and others...but when it's OUR guy and someone nails him, it's off limits? Hmmmmm...

I guess we just have different points of view on this.
 

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Obviously, this was meant to be positive and of course the negative nancy's have to bash it all to hell. :sigh:
 

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Critcism doesn't mean you don't want them to do well. Sounds like someone needs tougher skin. Some of the BEST movtivation comes from criticism. And it doesn't matter where it comes from, even if it's the janitor.

And we can comment all day about screw ups at OSU, UM and others...but when it's OUR guy and someone nails him, it's off limits? Hmmmmm...

I guess we just have different points of view on this.

Comment all you want. Criticize the player all day and night here on the message board if it makes you feel good. I don't really care. It is totally inappropriate for a fan to send a player a letter, or write on his facebook wall, or tweet him with a critique of his behavior and accompanying advice. It isn't the fan's place.

A fan's relationship with a player should be assumed to be a one-way thing unless and until the player indicates otherwise.
 

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The point is...somebody should be telling him these things. Rather than kneeling before him, which is what so many people in his life and at the university do now, tell him how it is in the simplest way you can.

Name me one person who has done that. Seriously, name me one person in a power position at the University or in his life that has done this. ResLife suspended him for a semester, Kelly suspended him indefinitely and said if he steps so much as a toe out of line he doesn't play a game, and the cops sure as hell aren't "kneeling before him" either.

Give me one concrete example of anyone going easy on him or not treating this like a big deal.


As far as calling it a "Captain Obvious" letter...well I guess Mike is just that dumb and doesn't get the obvious as this isn't his first screw up. So maybe this is just what he needs to hear.

My brain just almost exploded reading the part I bolded. So getting cited for under age drinking (which probably happens to probably somewhere near 50% of college kids... and the other 50% got lucky) = a DUI? I don't even consider underage drinking a mistake... but even if you do it is in a completely different universe from a DUI.

In other news, you completely and utterly missed the point on why some called it a "captain obvious" letter... which is about the content which provides absolutely nothing original or insightful... and any points it did make he has been likely hearing for months with greater specificity to his situation from people that matter (e.g. Brian Kelly, ResLife, etc.)



Hell, I wish more fans wrote these kinds of letters rather than the typical "we got your back no matter how big of a screw up you are and no matter how many times you throw it in our face" that Rhode Irish thinks is the acceptable attitude. The problem isnt fans getting behind their guys, we do that EVERY SATURDAY. So you're saying we can root for him when he's catching TD's, but it's out of our limits to give him some advice and criticism? Sorry, doesn't work like that.

Again, name me literally one single person who has said something like that. You might actually have a chance on this one using the power of Google... but I think it's unlikely. I sure as hell know that Rhode Irish said nothing like that in any of his posts I read this morning.
 
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I thought the letter was actually pretty spot on. I don't have a problem with any part of it other than a couple of words were misspelled.
 
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