She's far from being my girl. I've never discussed her before. I'm defending truth and accuracy. I've watched the video. She absolutely DID NOT say “just as lazy and stupid as blacks.” She said, "I know a ton of white people who are as lazy and sorry and probably worse than black people I know." Not a great thing to say, but not what you quoted. So yeah, you misquoted her. Get your facts straight.
As for your misquoting partner's claims that she said, black people should "be reminded just how good they have it NOW," she didn't say that either. She said, "We should learn from our history. We don't erase it. But that doesn't make me a racist because I disagree. As I say, leave the statue up there. If I were Black people today and I walked by one of those statues, I would be so proud. Because I'd say Look how far I have come in this country. Look how far my people have what they have overcome."
You both are classic strawman arguers. You're on the wrong side of just about every issue. You can't win any argument or discussion with honesty or facts or reason, so you resort to misrepresenting what others say so that you can pretend you defeated them and achieved something. Pathetic.