I really don't like the attitude of "we're special" and "we don't need a conference."
That's the smugness that other people love to hate on us for.
Yes, we are special. But, in 2023, I don't think being independent is needed for ND to be special.
ND became special by being an independent and being able to build a national brand by playing a national schedule and having their own TV deal
You can now play a national schedule by being in the Big 10 (or ACC).
You can now make more money from TV by being in a conference. And, trust me every game would still be on national TV. Plus, the product might not be total ass, which is what NBC has become.
I think the conference title game argument matters less with the playoff expanding. But, it's still something to consider.
Everyone also seems to forget about the other sports - ND needs a highly competitive conference for them.
It's not today. But, at some point I think it's going to need to happen. And, honestly, I'd be fine if it was today.
And when it does happen, ND will be as special as ever.