I actually think his actions are showing his LACK of character. When you're 12 years old, you react and make decisions when you're angry and in the heat of the moment. When you're an adult, you step back and accept the possibility that you were out of line and you look at the broader good (the integrity of Notre Dame and what it represents). From that perspective you can also see that one semester/year away is not going to be the end of the world (Jones, Walls, et al, as an example). To me, I see his actions as extremely selfish, short sighted and one he'll regret for the rest of his life.
Ummm, if you read my post I said he is showing a lot of maturity for not bad mouthing anyone or saying too much. I said he is making a decision that is best for him. Two different statements.
That being said, who do you think you are that you can sit here and say he is making the decision in the heat of the moment. You have no idea how he arrived at the decision. Step down off the self-righteous horse and don't speak of things you don't know anything about unless you were there. You have no right to say what he is doing is wrong or anything about what he should or shouldn't have done based on only the facts we know from what we have read on these boards.
What you are saying, is that if, at your job, if you don't finish a task and your boss comes down on you with, what you deem to be, an unreasonable level of punishment, you just sit there at take it and get back to work 100% of the time? You salute and say, "Yes sir! You are right sir! Won't happen again!" and you get right back to work? Bullshit! If it is truly bad and if you deem that your quality of life is more important than the crap you are taking at work,
you find another job. And, please don't give me the "loyalty to your team" line and blah, blah, blah. At this level of sports it is big business. College athletics are a job. If you have this romantic idea that there is all this comaraderie, pep talks, and syncronized clapping to motivate players, then you are delusional. It is hard mother f'ing work to play Division 1 college athletics. If it wasn't worth it to Joseph at this point in time, it is his decision to make and he should "take his ball and go home." His education is #1 and if he feels he needs to make a change to further his academic and athletic career, then that is what he needs to do.
He is an adult and he did what he thought was best for him. Who are we to sit here and criticize the young man for it? Best of luck to him where ever he goes. I don't know what went on, but I have played D1 college sports, I know the rigors and stresses of his job, and I am not going to throw stones at him.