I know a lot of people that know BK and knew him long before he got to ND. I knew Jeff Quinn. I won’t say too much more but I coached Jeff’s kids. Quinn was likable. Maybe Quinn liked Kelly, I’m not sure. Kelly is kind of a dick from what everyone has said and I believe them bc I know them well. I can’t say the guys I know hated him, but he wasn’t a lovable guy in any way. If he’s coming off that way to mom, it’s fake.
I had interactions with BK.
Multiple players & GA’s of his over the years have trained with me.
He’s not a dick at all. He just runs things from a CEO perspective, which many people don’t realize, is how a lot of successful coaches run things. He got along with players & families just fine. He wasn’t their best friend, but guess what, they didn’t want to be his best friend.
His sense of humor is just off & not for everyone. And he is just easily annoyed, and I 100% get it, by people who don’t know 1% of football as him questioning every little thing he does.
He knew college football was a business before most did, & he just treats it that way. As ND fans, it’s hard to deal with, but whatever.
Can’t rewrite history though. He turned ND around with that approach.