So you are advocating for Obama's sending everyone to community college to give the this chance you are talking about? Or lowering the rates on student loans? You must want to back infrastructure renewal projects that would put these people to work and off the streets while providing an urgent need for everyone. Maybe put a little money in their pockets to get the economy rolling again? That would help them get on the right track ...
Or are you saying that we should continue to target them for BS crimes and send them to prison? Should we gut food programs so they starve or remove the safety not altogether so if hunger does not kill them homelessness will. Because obviously they will not have access to healthcare if we are really going to impose meaningful tough love. Your view of the the social magic of conservative policies is the only thing that is generous here which is why conservatives will have trouble winning national office for the foreseeable future.
I read something recently that said the US spends a bit over $14,000/year on each person below the poverty line in aid of one type or another. I'm saying we should spend that money in ways that help them improve their situation and escape poverty instead of perpetuating it and making them permanently dependent on aid. I'd be all for putting more money into schools as long as it actually resulted in kids from poor families getting a real education. I'm in favor of sending all kids who've taken advantage of that education and met certain academic standards showing they're willing to work and better themselves getting free tuition to community colleges and even universities if they show the effort and ability to succeed there. It's hard to change a culture of poverty and academic underperformance, but it can be done in a generation or two and it's a huge step towards getting the poor out of that hole.
I'd gladly see some of that money (and more) go to improving infrastructure and creating jobs. A person without a job who can't support their family or themselves and has to rely on government assistance takes a huge hit to their ego and self esteem. When they begin working and earning their own hard-earned money, standing on their own two feet, and gaining pride in ownership of something, they get a different feeling about themselves and hopefulness for the future.
This isn't the entire solution, but a good start: enlistment in the military or a Public Service Corp (something like Job Corp or some of the Depression-era work organizations) where you're doing something constructive and needed like serving your country, rebuilding inner cities, working for the public highway or utilities department, etc. They'd earn a reasonable pay, learn a skill, and further college, tech school, or trade school education would be paid for just like in the military. Full medical benefits would be provided during service and during the time afterwards while continuing their education.
I'm all in favor of us having a safety net. People go through temporary hard times. Some people genuinely are not capable of taking care of themselves due to mental or physical issues. Nobody wants to see those people cast aside and suffer. Most of us need a hand up at some point in our lives. However, it's supposed to be a bridge, not a highway for most people. Nobody begrudges the truly disabled being supported, even in perpetuity. Nobody begrudges the help for someone trying hard who hits a rough patch. The anger and frustration and unwillingness to help comes when living on the public dole becomes a lifestyle for otherwise capable people or their poverty is created by one bad lifestyle choice after another and they make no attempt to better themselves or stop doing the stupid stuff that has them in this situation.
It's extraordinarily frustrating to see people who didn't take advantage of a free HS education or the opportunity to get a free college education by working hard in HS and earning scholarships or other financial aid, who had multiple children with multiple partners who weren't dependable or willing to help raise those children and did so with no way to support them. It's extraordinarily frustrating to see people who have quit countless jobs because they were "beneath them" or they didn't like the hours or how the boss talked to them, didn't apply themselves at those jobs to learn anything or work their way up or improve their job skills. Or people who have chosen every short term solution to all of life's long term problems and put immediate gratification ahead of long term reward... and then claim it's someone else's fault that they're poor and society should take care of them.
It's common for 20-somethings to end up back home with mom & dad after screwing up or not finding their way. Not the end of the world. The parents help them through a bad patch and eventually the kid grows up and stands on his own two feet. It's not good for anyone when the kid keeps coming back without ever bettering his situation or growing up, or just decides he's gonna live in their basement and never leave, let them support him forever, and never makes any attempt to do better... and the parents aren't helping him if they allow that and enable him. And I speak from experience on this.
I have a relative who's ridiculously smart and capable. He lost his dream job making beau coup money, lost his girlfriend, and moved back home
temporarily. Except that 6 years later he's still there, has only had one part time job that lasted 4 months, and has become the most useless, low self esteem, depressed, hopeless thing you've ever seen. He's not the slightest bit motivated to do anything to improve his situation because his parents are enabling him by supporting him, coddling him, and not demanding of him what he's capable of. They've offered to pay for him to go back to college. I've arranged two good jobs for him. He's had countless job offers, but he finds some excuse for all of them for the simple reason that he's getting most of his needs met without having to do anything except sleep all day and stay up all night surfing the Net and eating the food his parents provide (along with a roof over his head, utilities, a mom who does his laundry, and drive a car his parents bought). They've crippled him with their "help." Instead of providing him with a bridge over troubled waters, it's become a highway for life.
It's the reason the National Park Service says not to feed the wild animals. It makes them dependent and they lose the ability to fend for themselves. It's why wildlife rescue facilities teach injured or orphaned animals from the wild to fend for themselves instead of becoming permanently dependent on us.
I don't want to see anyone hungry or homeless or poor. Heck, I've been all three of those things myself at one point many years ago, and I DO sympathize with anyone there now. We disagree about how to avoid that or correct it where it already exists. I firmly believe in the old proverb about how if you give a man a fish you feed him for a day, but if you teach him to fish, you feed him for life. I believe that the solution lies in making public assistance a temporary measure for the vast majority, teaching those in poverty the tried & true methods for how to get out (or avoid it in the first place), helping them do the things to escape poverty, demanding responsibility and effort from them to do so, holding them accountable for their actions, helping provide the opportunity or helping them find it, and providing a temporary safety net as a last resort, not a permanent way of life.