Quinntastic
IE's Microbiologist
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OK, I'll play the voice of reason even though you don't want to hear it. Don't do it...nothing good will come of it except for you getting laid....and those 5-10 minutes won't be worth it!! Other than being pissed when he doesn't want a full-on relationship, you don't have anything to lose. He, however, has a wife, a relationship with his son and a job he could lose.
Here's the deal, if he has a great relationship with his wife, he'll just turn you down (negtive for you); if it's on the rocks, I guess you speed things along for him (only positive situation I can think of) and if it's somewhere in the middle he may be tempted to do something he really doesn't want to do but can't restrain himself...then he'll feel guilty for the rest of his life (negative for him).
OK, I'm done...go back to wanting to nail him....
Let me just start by saying I would never in a million years be a homewrecker. He loves his wife and he is much too ethical to throw away his marriage and job for a few minutes of fun. I'm completely aware of that - and as far as a "full time relationship" with him, I don't think I would even want that (who am I kidding, yes I would, but not at the expense of his marriage).
That said, I can't help but lust after someone who is as attractive, intelligent, funny and genuine as he is. So I will probably always want to nail him, so to speak - but I really hope you don't think so less of me as to think I would actually ruin this man's life for it.