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magogian said:
Well on new years I was hanging out with my cousin and some friends. My cousin had invited some male friends over for a little get together, and one of the guys that was there was really good looking, and had started chatting and getting to know each other and had a lot in common based on likes, and dislikes over the course of the night. He was a little flirty with me, and I was flirting back. We had continued talking late into new years morning and it was getting kind of late, and he didn't have a ride back to the place he had been staying at. So i drove him back to that residence but, when we had reached the place he was staying at we started to randomly makeout for about ten to fifteen minutes in my car, and he had given me his number when we had finished.

does anybody on here have any suggestions on what i should say to this guy or when i should give him a call as I haven't had a gay relationship in sometime. Kind of nervous and dont really know what to say

I should add that he likes star wars and wears a ring on the ring finger on his left hand.
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There are a few issues for you to consider:

1)There is a thread on here, posted by a guy asking about a girl he met under VERY similar circumstances. I can't imagine it is complete coincidence, so this raises an issue: he thought you were a chick. Now, if 'makeout' was only getting to first base, you have the issue of him thinking you are a female - maybe he just missed your Adam's apple, but nonetheless your 'relationship' would be off to a bad start in terms of his perception vs. reality. Now, if makeout involved the two of you getting to second base or beyond, he/you/both have some real issues (him with his knowledge of female anatomy or you with your equipment not being recognized as XY). This is something that one or both of you would need to address. The Jerry Springer show might offer some help

2)Both of you thought you drove the other one home, so maybe the two of you were kinda shit-faced - which may partially (although not completely) help explain point #1. That being said, you should both show better judgement in your decisions in drinking-and-driving (and of course everything covered in point #1).

3)The biggest issue I see though, is that both of you indicated that you were at a party thrown by your cousin. THERE IS A PRETTY HIGH PROBABILITY THAT YOU TWO MAY BE RELATED - LIKE, REAL CLOSELY. Now, it's the 21st century, but that being said if the two of you are related your relationship should be seen as taboo: whether same-sex (as you know), or opposite-sex.

The two of you definitely need to clear up all of these issues (especially #3 - ask him who some of his favorite aunts/uncles/cousins are).

As a final disclaimer: his post indicated that you were in North Carolina; fairly close to SEC territory. If you are both SEC fans, then ignore all of the above. If he runs a 4.4 or better 40, and has a 36+ vertical, the rest is just semantics - good luck to the two of you.
 
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Do you know the peanut butter trick? Try smothering peanut butter on your dong and see what happens with him.


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TheSunIsRising said:
There are a few issues for you to consider:

1)There is a thread on here, posted by a guy asking about a girl he met under VERY similar circumstances. I can't imagine it is complete coincidence, so this raises an issue: he thought you were a chick. Now, if 'makeout' was only getting to first base, you have the issue of him thinking you are a female - maybe he just missed your Adam's apple, but nonetheless your 'relationship' would be off to a bad start in terms of his perception vs. reality. Now, if makeout involved the two of you getting to second base or beyond, he/you/both have some real issues (him with his knowledge of female anatomy or you with your equipment not being recognized as XY). This is something that one or both of you would need to address. The Jerry Springer show might offer some help

2)Both of you thought you drove the other one home, so maybe the two of you were kinda shit-faced - which may partially (although not completely) help explain point #1. That being said, you should both show better judgement in your decisions in drinking-and-driving (and of course everything covered in point #1).

3)The biggest issue I see though, is that both of you indicated that you were at a party thrown by your cousin. THERE IS A PRETTY HIGH PROBABILITY THAT YOU TWO MAY BE RELATED - LIKE, REAL CLOSELY. Now, it's the 21st century, but that being said if the two of you are related your relationship should be seen as taboo: whether same-sex (as you know), or opposite-sex.

The two of you definitely need to clear up all of these issues (especially #3 - ask him who some of his favorite aunts/uncles/cousins are).

As a final disclaimer: his post indicated that you were in North Carolina; fairly close to SEC territory. If you are both SEC fans, then ignore all of the above. If he runs a 4.4 or better 40, and has a 36+ vertical, the rest is just semantics - good luck to the two of you.
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OP, why have you not delivered?
We need to know what happened.



Sorry guys I don't want to let this die.
 
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