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jerseyborn1971

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I've been gone from the site for a few years, so I am not sure if there was still a Prayer's thread. I could sure use some for my family today.

My son's best friend died yesterday from a self-inflicted, accidental gunshot wound. He was drunk and playing with his gun. 19 years old. This young man was like a son to me. He had a rough upbringing and went to live with his grandparents in 8th grade. He had been adopted and unadopted from an abusive home. He and my son Phoenix bonded over being adopted and finding family outside of blood relation. His grandparents are good, hard working people, but it was tough to be at everything for him. I often took him to wrestling practice and tournaments. I even walked him out on Senior Night so he had someone there with him. He often called me "dad".

While he could certainly be your typical, knucklehead red neck teenage boy, he also set the bar for my son on what friendship is. He was fiercely loyal. Despite appearing to be a "tough guy" sometimes, he was exceptionally thoughtful. The gifts he got my son for Christmas were often very thoughtful. Beyond what you would expect of a 14-18 year old.

Please pray for Reilly Berger and his family tonight. He was a part of our family and will be dearly missed. And please pray for my kids, especially Phoenix. No 18 year old kid should have to endure such a loss.
 

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Prayers to your son and your family and prayers for Reilly's family and everyone else affected by this awful tragedy!
 

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Sorry to hear that. Just terrible for all of you. Sounds like he was a great young man despite how tough he had it. Prayers for all of you.
 
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Deeply sorry for your loss. Allow for the memories of Reilly's light to fill you and your loved ones, especially when grief becomes too heavy. His life was not in vain and his end will not define him and the goodness he brought to this earth. You all carry this goodness forward in his honor. Take care.
 

MacIrish75

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Life is so fragile and fleeting. My prayers are with you, your family, your son, and your “son” Reilly.

I would wager there are a great many of us who have/had friends of our kids that we would consider almost one of our own. I know you’re grieving, too, buddy. He didn’t call you “dad” for no reason.
 

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I'm so sorry to hear you and your family are going through this and I'll be thinking of you guys. My son lost one of his closest friends a few years ago and that wound is as fresh today as it was then. It's incredible tough.
 

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Words can not say how deeply sorry I am for you and your entire family including Reilly and hit family. Stay strong my friend and find strength.
 

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Mark, my sympathies to you and Phoenix. I remember when you adopted him. It's weird to read him described as an 18 year old. Time flies.

We go back a long way. Even though it's hard to find the words when these kinds of things happen, you know I don't need to say anything anyway. I still got you.
 

jerseyborn1971

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Mark, my sympathies to you and Phoenix. I remember when you adopted him. It's weird to read him described as an 18 year old. Time flies.

We go back a long way. Even though it's hard to find the words when these kinds of things happen, you know I don't need to say anything anyway. I still got you.
The kind words of friends helps more than people realize sometimes.
 

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I am very sorry to hear about your loss. Way too early for that young man and for you and your family. There is nothing more tragic than someone losing their life before they had a chance to experience all that it has to offer. Prayers and condolences to you and your family.
 

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Tragic all around. It’s always hard to read something like this. Prayers for everyone touched by this.
 

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I've been gone from the site for a few years, so I am not sure if there was still a Prayer's thread. I could sure use some for my family today.

My son's best friend died yesterday from a self-inflicted, accidental gunshot wound. He was drunk and playing with his gun. 19 years old. This young man was like a son to me. He had a rough upbringing and went to live with his grandparents in 8th grade. He had been adopted and unadopted from an abusive home. He and my son Phoenix bonded over being adopted and finding family outside of blood relation. His grandparents are good, hard working people, but it was tough to be at everything for him. I often took him to wrestling practice and tournaments. I even walked him out on Senior Night so he had someone there with him. He often called me "dad".

While he could certainly be your typical, knucklehead red neck teenage boy, he also set the bar for my son on what friendship is. He was fiercely loyal. Despite appearing to be a "tough guy" sometimes, he was exceptionally thoughtful. The gifts he got my son for Christmas were often very thoughtful. Beyond what you would expect of a 14-18 year old.

Please pray for Reilly Berger and his family tonight. He was a part of our family and will be dearly missed. And please pray for my kids, especially Phoenix. No 18 year old kid should have to endure such a loss.
Very sorry for your family's loss.
 

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Ugh, this was a brutal read, jersey. My heart goes out to Phoenix. I suddenly lost my best friend at 17, and I know how he feels. Hold Phoenix close - he might feel lost for a while. I'll have you all in my prayers.
 

jerseyborn1971

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Ugh, this was a brutal read, jersey. My heart goes out to Phoenix. I suddenly lost my best friend at 17, and I know how he feels. Hold Phoenix close - he might feel lost for a while. I'll have you all in my prayers.
Absolutely. He's going to be surrounded by support.
 

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Thoughts and prayers for you and the family. Always.

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