“What’s so terrible” about forcing a woman to have a child against her will…..so what’s the big deal?
I did answer it’s there. All the risk is with the woman. The man is risk free. Forcing a woman to give birth and carry a child has risks to her physically, or the child may harm the woman or it may be deformed and still born and then she has to carry a dead baby because abortion is illegal in the state she lives in or she could get septic or any number of issues which she can’t go seek help for across state lines because she could get arrested. What’s he big deal??? Literally every pregnancy has a risk to the mothers heath for nine months until the baby is out of her. Why is that so terrible … cmon man. That right there tells me everything. You think a woman is simply a piece of biological equipment to be at the mercy of a man. I’m racking my brain to think of some equivalent situation where a man would be forced to do something like this and it just doesn’t exist. It’s unique to women and their life experience and men will never know anything about this let alone having to go through it multiple times. Maybe there should be a law for men where every speed has to be accounted for and that requires invasive monitoring to ensure you don’t waste one single sperm. To waste your sperm is a felony. That’s as close as I can come to the burden it puts on women.
Forget about her own independence as well. She can just give up 9 months of her life and another three months recovering and trying to get her life back after giving away the baby she didn’t want in the first place. What’s so terrible about that? 😂 Meanwhile the dude is free…. Free and unburdened to continue his life as normal and totally able to get more pussy when he wants it because he ain’t hitting that shit again while she is pregnant and doesn’t want him near her. 😂. Bro…
I already posted there are three scenarios:
1. Unmarried man and unmarried woman have sex. Assume it’s consensual. Pregnancy occurs. Man doesn’t want it. She doesn’t want it. She gets an abortion. That is her right to do so as it’s her body. The man’s rights are irrelevant as he doesn’t want it. Or she lives in a state that doesn’t allow it and now she is forced to carry it.
2. Unmarried man and unmarried woman have sex. Assume it’s consensual. Preganacy occurs. Woman doesn’t want but the man does. She gets an abortion. That is her right to do so as it’s her body. The man’s rights end here and are still irrelevant. This where your scenario begins… what’s so terrible about it? Unless she lives in a state that bans it and she is forced to carry it to term. Again her bodily autonomy and agency has been taken away.
3. Married man and woman have sex and get pregnant. They can decide what to do because they both have legal agency in the matter. They would also be more apt to discuss and make a decision that. You agree with. It could be one wants it and another doesn’t (man or woman doesn’t matter) and this becomes an issue. In their marriage they have to deal with. Unless they live in a state that bans it and now the woman is forced to carry it to term whether she wants it or not.
Or she wants it, keeps it and doesn’t get an abortion and becomes a mother whether the male is involved or not. That’s it. That is all there is to it. Three scenarios that are influenced by the people in their own specific situations and their own personal decisions based on what’s best for them, mentally, physically and financially. Making that decision for them is against their rights as individual humans.
Now assume it’s non-consensual, rape, incestuous, underage,….and they are forced to carry this baby to term with no ability to cross state lines even if the mothers life is at risk or in emergency need of care due to being pregnant.
Further everyone always talks about the number of abortions in this country each year. Well the number of natural abortions but spontaneous abortions occur in nearly 30% of all pregnancies every year. The rate of elective abortion is now around 11-15% per 1000 women. 50% of all women can be expected to have at least one miscarriage otherwise known as a spontaneous abortion. After the first miscarriage their likelihood of another increases 46% and can present significant health risk the woman for various conditions. The risk of forcing a woman to carry a child poses significant risks to their health that a man just does not have to deal with or worry about.