LOL, im only 34 not 70!
I guess maybe there is a generational gap. Others around my age or older will certainly remember that ND competed for NCs and nothing else. There wasnt a BCS to worry about either.
There was never even a debate about "9-3" or "10-2" - those were failed seasons.
Again, you are failing to take into account the changes in College football, that have obsoleted these expectations.
1. TV contracts. In the days that you are talking about, there wasn't nearly the proliferation of TV contracts that there are now. You had basically three networks to televise games on. ABC, NBC, and CBS. Even if every one of those networks showed a game on Saturday afternoon, you would still only see 6 teams play. The Alabamas, Notre Dames, and Ohio States of the college football world had a distinct advantage. If high school kids wanted to make a name for themselves, they HAD to go to one of the "big time" football schools. ND was one of those schools, so it was very easy to have a team loaded with the best players in the country. Nowadays, you have the Mountain West conference on TV every week. There are so many games on, and there is an hourlong show, named College Football Final, that shows highlights every weekend. A kid can go to Texas Christian University, and become a star.
2. Scholarship limits. Before scholarship limits, "rich" schools like Notre Dame, Ohio State, Alabama, Oklahoma, etc, could hand out as many scholarships as they could afford. This allowed the "haves" to offer scholarships to guys who were All-County or All-State in High School, but who had no realistic chance of ever seeing the field for their college team. Can you imagine having Jimmy Clausen, Tony Pike, Jake Locker, and Tim Tebow, all on the same team? How about a backfield of Herschel Walker, Emmit Smith, Bo Jackson, Eric Dickerson, and Marcus Allen? Michael Floyd and Armando Allen go down? Oh, no worries..........we have these two sophomores, Aurellius Benn and Emmit Smith, to plug in. THAT'S why 10-2 0r 9-3 was not good enough, in those days.
3. ND plays for National Championships. Because you were so young when this sentiment was popular, you probably just did not understand the true meaning of it. This was a testament to ND's indepence. The sentiment behind it was, while other teams may be able to win a Conference Championship and consider it a good year, the only Championship that ND could point to was a NATIONAL Championsip. It didn't mean that they were a serious contender, EVERY YEAR.
The game has changed. You can either change with it, or find yourself left behind and frustrated. As previously mentioned, a change in expectations does not mean that you have accepted mediocrity.