Dad flings son's opponent out of wrestling ring

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Dad flings son's opponent out of wrestling ring

AURORA, Ill. -- A father bounded into a youth wrestling match, picked up his son's winning opponent and launched him out of the ring, an episode caught on a home video.

After tossing the 11-year-old boy into the air Sunday, the angry father headed toward the cameraman, the father of the airborne boy.

"I was just wrestling, then the guy throws me," the boy, Nick Nasenbeny of suburban Aurora, told WMAQ-TV in Chicago. It was not known if the boy was injured.

Ray Hoffman, the father in the video and a part-time wrestling coach, told the television station he regrets his behavior and feels embarrassed. He said his son's shoulder was injured. Hoffman also said he will no longer be allowed to coach.

Dean Bogess, a wrestling coach who attended the meet, said Nick was using a legal move to pin his opponent and that the referee was about to stop the match when Hoffman intervened.

"The match was being stopped. He had blown his whistle already," Bogess said.

Nick's father, Dan Nasenbeny, said he was stunned by Hoffman's actions.

"I mean, there is a lot of different ways to stop a match. Not to pick up my son and launch him 5 feet, 10 feet in the air," Nasenbeny said.

Hoffman did not return messages left by The Associated Press.
 

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THat is horrible and parents are out of control in sports... have been for a long time... but I'm gonna be honset here guys the dad of the pushed son is being drama too.... "5-10 feet in the air?" the vid just looks like he pushed the kid off... NO EXCUSE for that... but I didn't see anything fly 10 feet in the air.... lol
 
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Mr. Hoffman needs to be banned from all Illinois sporting events, except Ron Zook's fantasy Illinois football games - seems how they have NO FIGHT in them. This is just another pathetic parent rapped up in his childs sporting event. Parents today take things way to serious and don't allow their son's or daugther's to enjoy the sport. I'd hate to see what happens at home when the kid brings home a poor report card. And I'm really surpised that the father of the son who got chucked out of the ring is not in jail right now....I would be. Mr. Hoffman would've been faced with a life changing event, had he grabbed either one of my boys.
 

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This happened not too far from my office at Rolling Meadows High School.

My soon to be brother in law wrestled D-3 college this season and has quit to play football. After 14 years of wrestling, he's burned out. Sick of parents, sick of coaches, sick of it all.

I went to most of his matches last year when he was a senior in HS and felt awkward. Parents and fans in that sport are a little nuts. It is a winter sport and thus, indoors. You're in a gym with several rabid, angry people cheering on Johnny to rip the other kid's head off. This guy obviously acted extremely overboard, but I've seen enough parents walk to this line and tiptoe it.

Not my cup of tea, wrestling.
 

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As far as coaching goes, my younger brother has coached the 7th grade basketball team the past two seasons and has won two championships. But the thing is when he first started coaching the parents bitched about him being to serious and working them to hard, failing to realize that he was just trying to make them better and getting them prepared for later years. But of course when they won championships they loved him but basically some of these parents are out of control.
 

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i wonder how often things like this went on before the invention of the cell phone camera/video and things of that nature...
 
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No excuse whatsover...he'd have a BIG PROBLEM if he did that to my child...they'd be picking him off the mat!
 
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