That is incredibly naive. Does Brian Kelly hold spots for everyone regardless of their unwillingness to commit? Trust me, even 4 star top 100 talent like Bryant is told to make a decision or risk losing a spot. Very few recruits get that treatment.
Sure it sucks for us what happened with Blake Barnett, but assume for the moment that Alabama was always his dream school and they weren't sold yet.
If they never commit to an actionable offer to him, he is perfectly happy to go to ND. If he doesn't commit to ND, back in 2013, ND is hunting for someone aggressively and maybe gets their Waller or Stidham. Now Blake is stuck.
Flip that scenario around and consider that if we get Iman Marshall or Marvell Tell to commit I could easily see Nick Coleman and Ashton White to look around.
It's a game and is the reality of recruiting in 2014. I don't blame Barajas or White or Adams or Everett Golson for that matter for playing it.