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Suffering seems to be a theme! I wish you the best! We must be about the same age, June of '57 for me. Went through a whole thing a half dozen years ago, person I thought I knew so well, seemed to change before my eyes. I feel for you, all I can say is find a good legitimate support group for divorced and separated. If you cannot respond in a neutral way, don't respond at all. The light at the end of the tunnel is getting to a place where you can be forgiving of others; then the big winner is you!